Here we are, with the announcement of my favorite John’s Journal
story from the 2021-22 school year. This was one of the first stories of the year, after folks from St. Michael-Albertville High School reached out to
me with the news of what had taken place.
It is, quite simply, a remarkable tale of selflessness, heart and
joy, centered around a mother’s dangerous health condition and a coach’s immediate, unquestionable and unwavering desire to help.
Here’s the story, originally posted on Aug. 12 …
The whole
thing, the whole unbelievable and wholly and very possibly Holy endeavor – a
straight-up miracle, perhaps – began simply enough, with a high school soccer
coach looking for video of a goal scored by a member of her team.
It ended with the
coach donating a vital organ to the mother of three of her players.
This is a good
time to share this story, as a new year of Minnesota high school activities
opens Monday with the start of fall sports practices. Keith Cornell, activities
director at St. Michael-Albertville, phrased it perfectly when he said, “This
just shows once again that there is so much more to education-based activities
than going out and playing games.”
The story began
after a late-September soccer game in 2020. Senior Rheana Zerna scored an
improbable goal from midfield as she and her St. Michael-Albertville teammates
forged a 1-1 tie at Eden Prairie. Her coach, Megan Johnson, knew that Rheana’s
father, Julius, often shot video of the games and she asked Rheana if her dad
had taped the big goal. Rheana responded that Megan should become Facebook
friends with her mom, Cleofe, because the video was posted on Cleofe’s Facebook
page.
“That’s not
something I usually do, but I wanted to see the goal,” Megan said.
The two indeed
became friends on Facebook, where Cleofe (pronounced Cleo-fay) posted an
important message in February: she was suffering from kidney failure and was
asking friends to spread the word that she was seeking a donor. After a lengthy
battle with kidney disease, her kidneys were functioning at 11 percent of
normal capacity. Cleofe, 49, was looking at a future filled with kidney
dialysis if no donor could be found.
Her Facebook
post read in part, “I realize that as much as I want to fight the good
fight on my own, it’s no longer realistic without the help of others. I am
currently on the Mayo Clinic kidney transplant waiting list for a non-living
donor, but the wait is long, it takes roughly 4-7 years.
“My goal is to have a kidney transplant and not go
through dialysis. For the sake of my loving family, particularly my awesome
husband of 24 years and our 3 wonderful daughters, I am reaching out for your
help.
“I don’t make these requests lightheartedly. I
simply just want to extend my life here on earth. I want to grow old with my
loving husband and see my wonderful children grow, finish college, get a job,
and as they promise they will send me and my husband on vacations. That
will be a day to look forward too! And of course, I want to see my future
adorable grandchildren.”
The post included a link to Mayo Clinic’s
Transplant Center and a questionnaire for prospective donors. Megan clicked the
link, kicking off an unlikely journey tying her for a lifetime with the mother
of three of her soccer players: Jucel Zerna graduated from St.
Michael-Albertville in 2018 and played soccer at Augsburg before graduating
this spring; Rheana graduated this year and is now playing soccer at St. Cloud
State; and Juliana is a soccer player who will be in 10th grade
when school resumes.
Megan, 41,
is a third-grade teacher who has coached the Knights for 17 years. Her husband
Jerremiah is a sixth-grade teacher and head coach of the Knights boys hockey
team. Like Cleofe and Julius, they have three children.
"My wife is
a person who exemplifies all the great things about education and
activities," Jerremiah said. "She cares so much about her athletes.
Every year she’s s emotional when the season ends because of how much she cares
about them."
Shortly after
filling out the online donation questionnaire, Megan received a phone call from
Mayo Clinic. That was followed by more phone calls and a day filled with video
visits. In the meantime, Cleofe had learned from Mayo that they were in
discussions with a potential donor, but she didn’t know it was her daughters’
soccer coach.
Cleofe posted the
news of a possible donor on Facebook. When Megan saw the post, she thought, “
‘Oh my gosh, that’s me!’ It started to get real.”
In mid-March –
still unbeknownst to Cleofe -- Megan spent two days at Mayo Clinic in Rochester
undergoing what she called “virtually every kind of test you can imagine.”
Finally, in May,
Megan got a phone call with the news that she was a match. Cleofe still wasn’t
aware of Megan’s role. So the coach texted Rheana and asked for Cleofe’s cell
phone number. She sent a text to Cleofe, asking if she could stop by the
Zerna’s home after school.
“The text from
coach Megan said, ‘I have something to give you,’ Cleofe said. “I thought it
was something to do with soccer. She came over and had a red gift basket with a
letter sticking out.
“I started
reading the letter and said, ‘Oh my gosh! You’re my match!’ ”
The two moms
hugged each other and wept.
“I was told it
would take time to find a donor, it was one in a million,” Cleofe said. “And my
gosh, my one in a million is right here, coaching my girls! I had goosebumps.”
The kidney donor
and recipient met in Rochester the day before their dual surgeries on July 9.
Megan and Jerremiah had dinner with Cleofe and Julius, learning that the Zernas
had come from the Philippines; Cleofe was 16 at that time. She has worked as a
registered nurse at North Memorial Health Hospital in Robbinsdale for 22 years,
but her kidney issues had been taking a toll and Julius, who works as a
mechanical engineer, had been driving her to and from work.
“A lot of people
didn’t know I had a failing kidney,” Cleofe said. “I looked healthy. But I felt
tired all the time, easily fatigued. I’d work eight hours and couldn’t even
drive home.”
According to the
National Kidney Foundation, approximately 100,000 Americans are waiting for a
kidney transplant, with 6,442 patients receiving a living kidney in 2018.
During the
surgical procedures, one of Megan’s kidneys was removed and then received by
Cleofe in a four-hour operation. It sounds odd, but the result is Megan has one
kidney and Cleofe has three; it’s common for surgeons to leave a failing kidney
in place if there are no complications.
Megan stayed in
the hospital for two days before returning home. Cleofe was only hospitalized
for three days, but she remained in Rochester for several weeks for tests and
lab work in order to make sure her new kidney and anti-rejection medications
were working properly.
Cleofe came home
for good a few days ago, and everything is wonderful. The Zernas visited the
Johnsons on Wednesday, and everyone shed tears of love and gratitude on their
one-month transplant anniversary.
“I’m just really
blessed and lucky,” Cleofe said. “I believe that God will not give me a
mountain that I cannot climb. I believe he will provide at the right time, and
he sure did.”
Soccer practice
will begin Monday. Megan will be on the field with her team even though she
remains under some post-surgery restrictions, including no lifting of heavy
objects.
“I’m feeling
really good,” she said. “I spent the first two weeks pretty much on the couch
or in bed. I kept increasing my walking every day and I feel like I’m ready for
next week.”
The news was
shared far and wide with another post on Cleofe’s Facebook page. On April 28,
she wrote in part, “God answers prayers to those who ask and believe.
THANK YOU GOD. To those who’ve been following my progress in regards to my
kidneys, meet my living DONOR, Megan Johnson, my girls High School Soccer Coach.
“Coach Megan came this evening and told me the
greatest news that my family and I have been praying for: she’s my match! My
living Donor! Coach, What a Blessing you are to me and my family!!!! We
were both in tears as I was reading her letter, and as she informed me on how
she made the decision to fill out the application: all the circumstances that
lead to it.
“As Coach said, ‘It was meant to be.’ It was just
the two of us in our kitchen crying and hugging each other. Julius and the kids
were not home at that time, and they were sooooo happy to hear the good news.”
“The whole experience was really emotional and incredible,”
Megan said. “For me, everything fell into place like it was meant to be, it was
supposed to happen.
“I never thought
twice. Jerr said, ‘Are you really doing this?’ And I never thought about not
doing it. We’ve both shed a ton of tears, lots of emotion.”
It’s going to be a great year.
--MSHSL media specialist John Millea has been the leading voice of
Minnesota high school activities for decades. Follow him on Twitter @MSHSLjohn
and listen to "Preps Today with John Millea” wherever you get podcasts.
Contact John at jmillea@mshsl.org
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